He said the last 3 months of our marriage he was sick of the arguing.I found out he has been Maybe he still loves you like day one. He wanted to add to this comment that it will take several weeks or months depending on how well you can control your negative My husband of 16 years told me that he loves me but is not in love with me and really never has been. It's hard to get passionate without kissing. He said he loves me but is not in love with me anymore and doesnt know how he feels about me or us and wants to separate to do whatever he needs to do and see how he feels. He just focuses on Your mind races My husband recently told me that not only is he not “in love” with me but that he doesn’t “love” me either. I told my husband I do not love him, he prefers to have a fake relationship of pretending we are happy. I've told my husband that I don't love him, anymore. I don’t love my husband but I can’t leave him. I’ve been with my patner 2 and half years , I gave my home up to move in with him , we have fully refurbished his house it’s beautiful but very time we fall out he kicks me out I love him but I’m not sure he loves me , I keep asking if I My husband and I got married in August after I had an endometrial ablation. He says he Loves me, yet questions my love…drops comments like if you Love me you would do this r do that for me. I don't love my husband anymore, but he's a good man and we get along great. I hate having sex with my husband because I do not get turned on like I am “supposed” to. Here’s what’s really going on… When your husband actually says the words, “I don’t love you,” the hurt comes in waves. When your husband praises electronics over you. Maybe he loves you far more than he thought was even possible on day one. We have been married for 9 years. I don’t love him anymore. I should be happy but I am not. Oh my, I have been in a relationship off and on with a Man for over a year now, it’s up and down. Am hurt by his actions and behavior he watches tv or just keep stuck to his mobile phone and i feel he is cheating on me because one number with no name on Last night, I received an email from a wife who wrote in part: "after a fight, my husband told me that although he loves me because I am the mother of his children and his wife, he doesn't like me all that much anymore. I've asked that we sit and kiss and he laughs. First, there’s shock and bewilderment. He prefers been on his phone than chatting with me, he says I nag a lot and don’t respect him. I don’t miss my husband when he goes to work or when I’m in visiting family. I do not have the kind of love for Whilst if he did love you and never want you to get hurt, he will try his best to comfort you at all time and that is where these signs will show if he is into you or not. And I dont even feel bad! I Don’t Love My Husband Anymore Samantha Rodman — October 24, 2014 12 Reader Not Feeling It writes: My husband and I have been married 7 years, together 12, one 5 year old daughter. Do you love him? He gone to stay at his brothers but only My husband decided that he wants to move out. We haven’t been intimate in a couple of weeks. I don’t know what to do my husband and I have been together 11 years married 6 and 8 weeks ago he walked out saying he doesn’t love me anymore and doesn’t want to save our marriage. I have told him, & he doesn't believe me. I feel like my husband doesn’t love me anymore.I don’t know what to think & what to do.I want to save my marriage.I can’t live without my husband.I love him so much.I can’t imagine my life without him.Please help me. Fantasies about women get me He took care of me for months before my surgery and literally saved my life. We moved 4 states away from my family, so I can't depend on them to help me in any way. he hides every details of his life. Recently, I started messing around with a friend/coworker too. I don't love my husband anymore either. In my teens, I began identifying as a bisexual, but my love for (and of) women has only increased with age. As a result, my mind wandered down some dark trails. I don't know where to begin. Start Quiz A great sense of doubt surrounded our relationship. Huge mortgage & DS who will leave home in 2 years. I have moved out of my house, I left my highly functioning alcoholic husband because I could't stand by and watch anymore. I’ve been with the hubby for 11years now married for 6. He says that I Would I I just don't want them to see us arguing anymore. They are the reason I've stayed as long as I have. And it’s not that I don’t care about him, because he’s a wonderful person and I’m lucky to have him in my life — in many ways, I don’t think I could do better. After my surgery, he asked me to marry him. He said he doesn't care as long as I don't leave him. He got very angry and hasn’t talked to me much in a couple days. I Don't Feel Anything For My Husband: I Don't Love My Husband Anymore But He Loves Me - How Long Should You Stay In An Unhappy Marriage So you've fallen out of love with your spouse. My Husband Doesn’t Tell Me He Loves Me June 23, 2015 This is a guest article written by a wife named Joelle. We plod on. We have two children, that I'm proud of. I am often approached by women who are at the end of their marital rope. It could be that you both speak a different love language. I Don't Love My Husband Anymore But He Loves Me: Not In Love With My Husband Anymore What Do I Do Marriage counselors often hear one or both partners in a marriage say, "But I just don't love him/her anymore. He said that he doesn't like kissing, though at the beginning we kissed all the time. I have tried to leave a couple times & he uses our child against me. Or maybe... time has gone by, and you've both changed, and grew apart. No sex all year - … I don’t know whether to give up I no longer felt anything for my husband. When I hear But what could I do? My husband and I are past that 'bump' in our relationship and my husband feels in love with me. I searched everywhere and felt like nothing would help until I came across Mort Fertel’s program which taught me the importance of communication in marriage and how it could help mend my relationship with Matt. My Husband Doesn’t Love Me Or does he? Usually in hushed tones, or with pained faces, they confess "I don't think my husband loves me anymore." Her transparency about marriage reveals a situation that many wives have experienced before, but she provides a . He said that he has always had doubts and he can’t pretend anymore. He said he still finds me very attractive and doesn’t want to hurt me which confuses me and still upsets me. When a man loses romantic interest in his wife, but still cares about her and wants to continue living together happily, he does not hurt her feelings by admitting that he is no longer "in love". The fact that my husband didn’t like me anymore led me to believe that our marriage would inevitably end in a divorce unless I actively did something to fix it. He is a great guy, very good father and helps out in the household. All of the above is my husband. I just want to be on my own. 17. i know this is a decision i'll have to make for myself, i just … I've had many discussions with my husband on why he doesn't like to kiss me passionately. We have a 14 and 9 year old. He tells me he loves me & if I dont he gets mad. Some are afraid that divorce is on the horizon, while some are just sad because the marriage is no longer as close or as intimate as they once remembered or enjoyed. I don’t love my husband anymore but don’t want to hurt him Deleted profile Posted on 10-10-2018 at 3.24PM Hi all , I’m try not to make this a long post !! ‘I Love My Husband, But Not Passionately’ Four roads to being with the one you love. Should i stay with him or leave? From everything I have read and everyone I have spoken to he 100% has someone else. If so; Ask yourself Two weeks after our one year anniversary he said he wanted a divorce, that he didn’t love me anymore. We and my husband separate on almost 10 mos we maybe get divorce .though hard decision i dont want to think about it now.We have a lot of ups and down.and he broke my heart when he told me he dont love me anymore and In fact, I’m almost positive he’s going to propose to me near my birthday, because I know that he’s going to want to start having kids and really settling down soon. Does My Husband Love Me? That constant thought in my mind terrified me. 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